Two electricians barged into the lift with me to reach 16th floor, where my office exists. On our way I overheard their conversation, which was quite funny but realistic too. I could figure out from their conversation that one of the guys was inexperienced as they were discussing about their current jobs. Actually what interested me was their insecurity, when the inexperienced (Rajesh) asked experienced (Suresh) to teach him the know-how of his job.
“Mujhe paagal samajh rakha he kya” immediately replied the experienced (Suresh).
“Tereko kaam seekha doonga to mein kahan jaaunga, apne peyt par laat marni he kya”
Suresh did not say anything wrong, as he was skilled but only in one work and he was afraid of losing his job if someone else knows it better. I have come across 99%(majority) of the people in my life like Suresh who have never helped others or were very hesitant.Very few people you will find in your life that will help or guide you in your work.
Job insecurity will always remain amongst those who are satisfied with whatever work they are doing and are hesitant of trying out new challenges. Consequently the stigma of fear never dies amongst them and they remain de-motivated and insecure.
To get fearless attitude in work one needs to widen their horizons, learn new skills, add aggression to their work, put in extra bit of hard work, be always on their toes to accept challenges and compete with their own selves. This will give them a chance to help people like Ramesh who are new to their jobs and keen to learn.
I asked one of my friends that if he were in the same situation, what he would do? “I will save one punch for myself – he replied instantly. Again, he also falls under the same 99% of universe. Is something wrong with what 99% of people are doing? I don’t want to put myself into of so much pain again. As we already face so many problems in our day-to-day life, we can’t add another more.
I would say, just go with your instincts and do what you want to do without hurting the sentiments of the new comers or help seekers. I believe in adding more and more punches to my kitty and letting the world know that how I have come. I have no qualms about it. As we also learn from every individuals and the learning should not be stopped.
"Patang ka hawa se pyaar"
Yeh pyaar kaisa hota he, yeh pyaar kaisa hota he,
Jeevan ki jo dor he, khule aasman mein udti he,
Udti he us patang ki tarah, jo azad hawa mein udti he,
Ik din koyi aata he, jo hawa se baatein karta he,
Hawa ko kuchh kehta he, aur patang wahan ko mudti he,
Patang jo bandhi thi dor se, ab hawa se baatein karti he,
Udti thi jo akeli aasmaan mein, aaj hawa ke rukh se mudti he,
Akeli patang ko mili he zindagi, ab hawa se usko pyaar hua he,
Chhuna he ab aasmaan ko, jeene ka maksad mila he,
Patang ne unchayi he ab chhu li, kyunki hawa ka saath he,
Dono ka he mail aisa, ki kya din kya raat he,
Samay ki seema ka he jor, mausam ke bhi jazbaat hein,
Par patang hawa dateh rahein, aise kayi imtihaan he,
Samay kisi se rukta nahin, mausam aate jaate hein,
Saath rahe wo dono hamesha, to anginat mulakaatein hein,
Meethi rahe gi zindagi, meetha rahe ga saath,
Uljhein na wo tufaano se, to hogi naa kabhi raat,
Yeh pyaar aisa hota he, haan yeh pyaar aisa hota he…
Jeevan ki jo dor he, khule aasman mein udti he,
Udti he us patang ki tarah, jo azad hawa mein udti he,
Ik din koyi aata he, jo hawa se baatein karta he,
Hawa ko kuchh kehta he, aur patang wahan ko mudti he,
Patang jo bandhi thi dor se, ab hawa se baatein karti he,
Udti thi jo akeli aasmaan mein, aaj hawa ke rukh se mudti he,
Akeli patang ko mili he zindagi, ab hawa se usko pyaar hua he,
Chhuna he ab aasmaan ko, jeene ka maksad mila he,
Patang ne unchayi he ab chhu li, kyunki hawa ka saath he,
Dono ka he mail aisa, ki kya din kya raat he,
Samay ki seema ka he jor, mausam ke bhi jazbaat hein,
Par patang hawa dateh rahein, aise kayi imtihaan he,
Samay kisi se rukta nahin, mausam aate jaate hein,
Saath rahe wo dono hamesha, to anginat mulakaatein hein,
Meethi rahe gi zindagi, meetha rahe ga saath,
Uljhein na wo tufaano se, to hogi naa kabhi raat,
Yeh pyaar aisa hota he, haan yeh pyaar aisa hota he…
"We are all beggars"
A beggar is not a beggar by birth; he is been pushed and bequeathed by this mean world. Either he is mentally failed to understand the life’s core aspects or he is physically challenged to earn his lives. Many of us cerebrate that how would be a beggar’s life? No! We don’t do that, as we are bunch of fearful characters.
Why do we show pities to somebody who’s in grief or in pain? Why do we do that? Because we are scared! Yes, we are scared of imagining ourselves in their poor positions as it really scares the hell out of us. But there are majority of people who disagree by my saying, as they really don’t bother about others. They just know the very meaning of ‘I’ and don’t know at all the meaning of ‘WE’. And these people are far happier than those who relate themselves with the pain.
However, if we congregate these two perverse thoughts, we still find fears in both. Every individual is scare of pain. Grief frightens us the most. Thinking of losing somebody who we love most punctures the heart from body. A bad day at office spoils everything and impelled us to surrender. Quarrel with wife or girlfriend tears us apart. Disagreement with folks pushed us into the dark. Fight with friends rammed us into dissimilar thoughts. Monetary terms gives rise to frustration levels. Arguments lead to heights of irritations and so on.
Life is just about fear and only fears and we beg for everything in life just to satisfy our selfish needs. We will keep on begging for life, as we are all beggars.
Why do we show pities to somebody who’s in grief or in pain? Why do we do that? Because we are scared! Yes, we are scared of imagining ourselves in their poor positions as it really scares the hell out of us. But there are majority of people who disagree by my saying, as they really don’t bother about others. They just know the very meaning of ‘I’ and don’t know at all the meaning of ‘WE’. And these people are far happier than those who relate themselves with the pain.
However, if we congregate these two perverse thoughts, we still find fears in both. Every individual is scare of pain. Grief frightens us the most. Thinking of losing somebody who we love most punctures the heart from body. A bad day at office spoils everything and impelled us to surrender. Quarrel with wife or girlfriend tears us apart. Disagreement with folks pushed us into the dark. Fight with friends rammed us into dissimilar thoughts. Monetary terms gives rise to frustration levels. Arguments lead to heights of irritations and so on.
Life is just about fear and only fears and we beg for everything in life just to satisfy our selfish needs. We will keep on begging for life, as we are all beggars.
'Leave Me'
It’s like plural is asking for singular, union is asking for separation, bonding is asking for break-up, or siblings are asking for partition. It is very hard to think that how the meaning of a companionship or relationships can drastically change by mere these two words in just matter of seconds. For relationships that we endeavor in our current lives these two words are of much greater importance than all words, because we want to hold back our relationships. No matter what, if we love a person we want to be with him/her. And ‘Leave me’ can completely shatter the relationships in mere seconds. Two people are together because they wanted to be together and if one says ‘Leave me’ the loneliness starts.
We can’t possess something that is not ours and by saying leave me, we loose the possession of what we have (love) and in turn we end the relationships. It looks so easy uttering it from the mouth and repenting it whole life after that why we had said it. Why we forget that everything comes at a price. We can’t quit, if there are hurdles in our love. We can’t be weak and try finding easy ways. We can’t give up for our selfish reasons. Running away is not an option rather sticking to it, holding back yourself, finding calm solutions, realization of mistakes and forward thinking are the keys. So never say.. ‘Leave Me’.
We can’t possess something that is not ours and by saying leave me, we loose the possession of what we have (love) and in turn we end the relationships. It looks so easy uttering it from the mouth and repenting it whole life after that why we had said it. Why we forget that everything comes at a price. We can’t quit, if there are hurdles in our love. We can’t be weak and try finding easy ways. We can’t give up for our selfish reasons. Running away is not an option rather sticking to it, holding back yourself, finding calm solutions, realization of mistakes and forward thinking are the keys. So never say.. ‘Leave Me’.
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