Friends are always in a bond-ship and that is what the friends are for, but enemy? Though there is no word in my dictionary called ‘enemy’, so I call them snob. One who is condescends toward or disdainful of those who hold other opinions and don’t respect others, are snob. I don’t feel that there is any enemy of anybody. There are people who are disrespectful to others are the real foes.
I am here justifying the above idiom in a different way. The idiom says that if you keep your enemy closer than your friends, you are unlikely to get hurt later. I say that if you keep your enemy closer then there are chances that you might end up making him/her your best friend, and it has proved right in many cases, at least for me. However I must warn you that it is a feeble task, as it could also go wrong and leave you in pain, so please be cautious while doing that.
I never think of any consequences, so I end-up winning sometime and crying most of the time, but it hardly moves me as I never stop. If I end-up crying, I crib and cry for days and lately cope-up and move on but always ready to help the guilty just to make him/her better for good reasons. My close friends keep on yelling at me that why do I go again where I have already been hurt and try to be nice but my idiotic emotions disregard it always. One should always work closely with his enemies to know them better and make them better by showing your love and the best. At times some do realise their mistakes and some do not, but it’s a part of life. It is their misfortune if they still hate you for no reasons. It is good to learn from your mistakes and your bad experiences. But one should not do the same that these snobs do to you, as there will be no difference then. Believe me guys this is only a thought that I am sharing with you rather than giving you any gyan. -- Love
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Well I must say that you must have a good amount of patience to carry out what you are saying. As for me, I don't have enemies, just people I don't like, so I remove them from my life and my consciousness. I know you must be thinking that they should be given a chance but the people I remove are the ones I remove only after they have exhausted all their chances. My belief is that me and me alone is responsible for my own happiness, and so it is up to me to remove whatever may suck out happiness from my life. Sounds selfish probably, but happiness is that precious to me
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